More than two
For three or more of you, in whatever arrangement you have
For three or more people in a relationship, including triads, larger networks and households, and for people working out how to open one up.
Sessions run 80 minutes. Everyone who wants to take part can come. At the start we agree who comes to which sessions, how we handle time with one person alone, and what stays between whom. We treat each connection as its own, and we ask about the whole group too.
You might be
A triad, or a larger group
Opening a relationship that was closed
Closing one that had opened
Sharing a home, or not
Raising children together, or not
What to expect
How we work
We draw on systemic approaches, which look at how each person and each connection shapes the whole. We name the approach we are using, and we say when something falls outside what we do.
What this is not
It is not a place where a structure gets judged as a problem to fix. We don't rank partners, and we don't set your rules or boundaries for you.
How long, how often
Sessions run 80 minutes. A larger group can take longer to find its rhythm. Your clinician sets the pace with you, and we never promise a number of sessions.
How it is paid
The fee is set per session, not per person, and you divide it however you agree. It is given in writing before you start.
How fees work
Three questions
Who is the client when there are three of us?
All of you who take part are. We agree at the start who comes to which sessions, and we go over it again whenever things change.
Can some of us come separately?
Sometimes, if everyone agrees to how it will work first. We set that up in advance so that nothing said alone becomes a secret that hurts someone.
Do you work with relationships that are open or non-monogamous?
Yes. We don't treat openness as the cause of a problem, and we don't treat closing a relationship as a fix.
Write to us about sessions for three or more
Tell us how to reach you and how you would describe things. We will write back at a time that is safe for you.